CHANGE BRINGS GROWTH.

Am at a place in my life where everything is changing.A going through a transition in my school work and career path of corporate communication,in my relationships with people,in my family and i feel restless.I feel uncomfortable with all these changes because i don't like change at all.Especially when the elevation is not clear and you can't tell what direction it is taking.When things are not black and white and all you are getting is shades of gray.It all just makes me so uncomfortable because i have to wait and see what is in the future.Waiting is not my cup of tea and patience is one of those virtues am slowly cultivating.One thing i have noticed about change is it comes with fear mainly the fear of the unknown.The fear of been pulled out of your comfort zone and having to adjust to a different environment.It applies to even the smallest things like moving out,changing to a different brand of the same product.Even something as silly as using the same route everyday in town to get to a certain building.I got this from a friend of mine who looked at me and said "You look like the kind of person who uses the same route to get this building everyday"and my response was "Yes i actually do i just don't like change."Am surrounded by people who like to live a little and they are all about adventure and taking risks while i would rather stay in my shell because c'mon its really warm in there.However,what this great bunch of friends has taught me is that you deserve to live a little.Let out the Victoria in you and allow her to breathe.Take risks and enjoy life because every moment should be extra ordinary because reality is nobody knows about tomorrow.All we have is today.Even though change makes me fidget and feel like am loosing my balance sometimes you just need to jump into canon ball waters without thinking as someone wise once told me.So accept change and move with it.I found this quote to be really encouraging "If we don't change we don't grow,if we don't grow then that is not really living"-Gail Sheehy.